“The Lord is my strength and my song, and he has become my salvation: this is my God, and I will praise him, my father’s God, and I will exalt him.” Exodus 15:2
When my husband Bob died suddenly from a stroke, we were members of Saint Andrews Chapel in Sanford, Florida, and the pastor was R.C. Sproul. R.C. conducted the funeral service in the church and my grandchildren provided the music. The church is beautiful and the service was God-honoring. But after I recovered from the shock of Bob’s death, I began to think about my own funeral. How could I be sure that it would honor God, and not just have people say nice things (I hope!) about me.
My children know my favorite hymns, and the family contains a number of musicians. But I thought I should write some things down to make it easier for my children when they put together my funeral because it will be my last song on earth and I want it to glorify God.
Therefore, I have written down some of my favorite hymns. I have also asked the present pastor of Saint Andrews to conduct the funeral because I know he will talk about God (not me), and he will present the gospel in case there are unbelievers in the audience.
I have also asked my grandson (an ordained pastor) to conduct the graveside service. He knows his grandmama well, but he will talk about God – not me.
To help our children, Bob and I had paid the funeral home and bought our caskets some years ago. Since both of us were in the military, Bob was buried and I will be buried in the Florida National Cemetery in Bushnell, FL.
And, of course, we had both written our wills.
As far as I am concerned, I have prepared practically as well as I can for my death. What I need to make sure of is that I am prepared spiritually – that I have done all God wanted me to do with my life.
Why am I telling you all of this? Two reasons. One is that I want to make it as easy as possible for my children when I die. I want them to know that although they may be sad for a little while, that I am not sad. I am with Jesus and Bob and all my Christian family and friends. What could be better than that?
Secondly, I don’t know when the Lord will take me home and neither do you! I want to make sure that my last words (and songs) bring glory to God. So I have written some of my favorite hymns and scripture passages for my children to use in my funeral.
Have you done that too?