“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he
is old he will not depart from it.” Proverbs
22:6
Aging prompts
me to think less of myself and more about the next generation. It is said that
I was part of the “Great Generation.” What advice can I give to the next
generation to make them even greater?
One thing that
comes to mind is schools. My generation went to school and learned how to read
(remember “Dick and Jane”?). We learned cursive writing (it is quicker than
printing!), and we learned to add, subtract, multiply, and divide without a
calculator. And we didn’t need a cellphone to figure out how much a tip should
be. We actually had to memorize the multiplication tables up to twelve
times twelve! People today can’t believe how handy that is when shopping,
banking, or keeping score at games.
But public schools
today are no longer teaching the important things that children need to learn.
CRT is not what children need to hear. Besides the basics of reading, writing,
and arithmetic, they need to learn the true history of this country. And they
need to learn geography, world history, science, art, good music, and yes,
computers!
But most of
all, they need to learn who God is and who they are in relation to him. They
will not learn this in public schools today.
Therefore, my
advice is to send young children to Christian (classical, if possible) schools
or homeschool them. There are co-op home schools. No matter what it costs you,
do not send four-year-old to seven-year-olds to public school. At these ages,
children are most impressionable so do whatever is necessary to keep them from
public schools where their minds can be indoctrinated with wrong things. Check
with churches in your area to see if they have early childhood schools. Many
do.
If there is
no Christian classical school in the area, maybe God wants you to start one! Call
or write Karen Elliott (Executive Director of Rafiki) and ask her how to start
a school. You can reach Karen at www.rafikifoundation.org. She will help you because she and a
couple of us are starting a Christian classical school in Eustis, FL, where we
live. We will be starting with four to seven-year-old children. We will use the
facilities of a local church since they are not in use during the week. This is
a win-win situation since it helps the church, and it helps local children. You
can do it! PLEASE DO NOT SEND YOUR YOUNG CHILDREN TO PUBLIC SCHOOLS.
It’s more
difficult when it comes to teenagers. Christian middle and high schools are
expensive. But if you can possibly afford it, PLEASE send your children to a
private Christian school where they will learn the Bible and receive a good
education. You can find Christian classical schools by checking out The Association of Classical
Christian Schools. The ACCS is
the largest advocacy organization for K-12 classical Christian education in the
US. (https://classicalchristian.org).
For sure, you
do not want your children being taught CRT or associating with friends who
don’t even know what gender they are.
A close
friend of mine (well qualified with a master’s degree) visited me last week and
told me that she had resigned from the teaching job she had because two of the
teenage girls she taught told her that she must call them by their preferred
gender “she-her” or “he-him”! They said they would report her if she did not.
She didn’t wait to be reported. She resigned from teaching in public school and
got a good secular job. How sad!
If you cannot
afford to send teenagers to private schools, then at least get involved in their
public schools. Get on the board and make sure you know what your children are
learning and what they are reading! Furthermore, take them to Sunday school and
conduct devotions in your home. Invite their school friends to your house to
influence them. My granddaughter has a Bible study for teenagers in her home
every week—and of course, she always serves refreshments!
As far as
college is concerned, the same goes. If at all possible, send college-age
students to Christian colleges. Christian colleges are a thousand times better
than secular schools even if Christian colleges are less prestigious. If a state
school is your only option, then make sure your students join a Christian group
on campus like RUF (Reformed University Fellowship). I highly recommend RUF
because it had a wonderful influence on one of my grandsons. After college, he
went to seminary and became a minister.
Finally, a good
education is essential. Do whatever you can to keep your children from secular
schools. If that is not possible, I have one more suggestion: send your child
to school as a missionary! We sent our three teenage daughters to a public
school out of necessity. But we told them that because they were Christians,
they would be sent to that school to tell their friends about Christ. That was
their mission. Then every evening at home we would talk about what was
happening in school and the people they talked to about Jesus. By God’s grace,
there are some people (mostly boys!) who are Christians today because God used my
daughters in a public school as missionaries.
Thank you for this, Rosemary. My grandson is a missionary to his friends as well. He is going through the book of Matthew with a high school friend, and has brought him to church. Last Sunday, his parents came to church to check it out . . .
ReplyDeleteThat's so wonderful. Tell your grandson that God will honor his efforts and multiply the fruit that come from it. And he himself will receive great joy!
DeleteI will, thank you!
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